Confidence Versus Arrogance, What’s the Difference?
Being confident is healthy. There are paid classes to become confident, not arrogant.
Today we examine what psychologists, dictionaries, and celebrities. And what they tell us about the differences between confidence and arrogance.
What is the difference between confidence versus arrogance? Arrogance is being too full of yourself to the point of overflowing . While Confidence is being full of yourself
1.) What Do the Dictionaries Have to Say?
Anytime we hear a more complicated word, we look to the professionals. Let’s see what the top two dictionaries, Oxford and Webster have to say.
Oxford Dictionary Arrogance
Arrogance: “the behavior of a person when they feel that they are more important than other people, and are rude to them, or do not consider them”– Oxford Dictionary
Confidence: “A feeling of self-assurance arising from an appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.”-Oxford Dictionary
The definitions of arrogance and confidence seem contradictory in the oxford dictionary.
Reason being, that arrogant definition means thinking you’re more important than other people.
Yet, in certain situations, you can be important than other people. For example, during a soccer (Futbol) game. Cristiano Ronaldo would be more important than any reserve(bench) player on his team.
Aside from making his team win. Simply based off giving the fans a good show. Entertaining the fans.
Would that make Cristiano Ronaldo arrogant? Or somebody that’s being realistic?
Webster Dictionary Confidence
Arrogance: “an attitude of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or in presumptuous claims or assumptions. “– Webster Dictionary
Confidence: “a feeling or consciousness of one’s powers or of reliance on one’s circumstances “– Webster Dictionary
The Webster dictionary focuses more on ranking one’s abilities. In comparison to ones peers.
A confident person believes in their abilities. When dealing with difficult situations. Fitting into the cliché term phrase “being comfortable in your own skin“.
In contrast, Arrogant people, think their abilities are on another stratosphere. Widely known as the term overrated.
2.) Are Athletes and Entertainer Arrogant?
Athletes and professional entertainers are the best examples for discussing the difference between confidence and arrogance.
When people are at the highest level of fame and success. It’s only human for it to go to their heads.
Cristiano Ronaldo, the Golden Goose
This is Cristiano Ronaldo at 18 years old coming into the league. Not even knowing the definition of confidence.
Who could’ve guessed that he’d be Arguably the most arrogant or confident player? In the game of soccer (Futbol).
Interviewer “Why is it always controversy with you?”
Cristiano Ronaldo “Maybe I’m too good”
Is Ronaldo being confident or arrogant? I would say in this case Ronaldo appears arrogant at this moment. Proclaiming that he is so good at a sport, that others can’t comprehend him.
Even though Ronaldo is a5-time Ballon d’Or (MVP) winner. Which is a record
He’s still rivaled by Lionel Messi who also has 5 Ballon d’Or. Except for Messi’s calm, and more humble behavior gives him less backlash.
He’s one of the best soccer players of all time. Ronaldo has the accolades to back up his attitude.
Cristiano Ronaldo is confident. According to Webster’s definition, but not Oxford’s dictionary.
Tekashi 6ix9ine and the Rapper’s Ego
Tekashi 6ix9ine, this is a fun one. Inarguably one of the hottest rappers, coming out of Brooklyn, New York. Before getting locked up, currently facing federal charges of as 2018.
Tekashi 6ix9ine has 10 billboard hit singles on billboards top 100 charts.
While speaking on YG that has 21 hits, and still has an active career. Reaching the top 100 billboards with his song ‘stop snitching‘ 2 months ago.
Zlatan Ibrahimović and his Cocky Moments
Zlatan Ibrahimović is the cockiest player in soccer. He always bigs himself up and doesn’t downplay his abilities. On, and off the soccer pitch. Nearly impossible to ignore.
After Getting signed to LA Galaxy. Zlatan took out a page in the LA Times proclaiming how great he was.
Saying you’re welcome to the city just for his arrival. A city team boasting big-time players. >ike David Beckham and Steven Gerrard.
Zlatan is definitely arrogant. Putting himself over everybody. Even considering his impressive stats and skill of the game.
The right to proclaim himself as the best hasn’t been earned from a statistical standpoint. Like Cristiano Ronaldo.
Nevertheless, commenters on YouTube have no issue. following Zlatan’s lead in tooting his own horn.
Arrogant YouTube comments about Zlatan
- “When Zlatan makes a grammar mistake, the dictionary is edited”
- “When Zlatan takes a photo. The camera smiles for him”
- “When Zlatan was a kid he told his parents a bedtime story.”
- “When Zlatan left the house as a teenager he told his dad ‘you are the man of the house now’
- “When Zlatan comes to your house he gives you the WIFI password”
Floyd Mayweather Fights with Attitude
Floyd ‘Money’ Mayweather”. Given that nickname for being Forbes #1 for celebrity earnings numerous times.
A reporter asks Floyd about rematching Connor McGregor. A UFC Lightweight and Featherweight Champion. Floyd then laughs uncontrollably.
In another sports center interview back in 2009, Floyd predicts that he will win against several boxers. Then proves himself right.
In the same interview, he declares himself the best: “I’m the best fighter in the world of boxing”.
Does this mean Floyd Mayweather should change his middle name to Arrogant? Of course not. He has a 50-0 undefeated record. With 50 straight wins and 27 knockouts.